THERE IS NO DOUBT THAT

CONNECTIONS BUILD TRUST

AND TRUST RAISES SPEED AND LOWERS RISK

Research reveals that when engaged in a common purpose, those participating feel a bond with others, thus increasing trust.

Connection is not just a feeling or a condition, however. It is hardwired into our brains. The latest neuroscientific research reveals also that our brains are hardwired to work collaboratively because that is the way ideas form in the first place. Using the principle of synaptic efficiency, our brains link neurons together and as the connections become stronger, they also become able to work faster, allowing us to form connections more quickly often between concepts where we did not see a connection before. This should not be a surprise us.

Ten thousand years ago, as the first homo sapiens huddled together in caves, what allowed us to survive was not competition but collaboration. No one individual could survive on their own but had to depend on the efforts of the group together. This is how homo sapiens survived and we developed the first civilizations. Our ability to collaborate has created civilizations that have lasted for millennia and yet we have somehow forgotten the lessons we learned long ago. But those lessons are not lost. We can and we must relearn them. But relearning is easier if we return to a time, to a place where our brains will remember, remember what is was like to collaborate, not just compete. Like when we were young and played games naturally.

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In short, we need a way to short circuit the constant seeking of status and reward. For this seeking is also hardwired into our brains, as we seek out ways to avoid threats. For the more serious the threat the more we are likely to distrust the source of that threat, be it a person, an organization or a nation-state. About this too, we should not be surprised.

Our brains are hardwired to sense threats. Threats decrease trust and increase distrust as they activate areas of our brain designed to protect us by producing that “fight or flight” response. This produces a negative feedback loop in our brains which can be seen in our current economic, political and even social climate as individuals and groups seek protection from the threats they see. The news industry of the main media is built around drama, conflict, villains and victims. Our whole culture has been increasingly influenced and conditioned by it, so that we accept a distorted negative vision of society, seen through a lens that feeds us extremes.

“The celebrity phenomenon underscores the human need to connect, to be part of something larger than ourselves, to have an identity. We need to be part of a narrative, no matter how shallow or manipulative it may be.

"TRUST STARTS WITH TRUTH AND ENDS WITH TRUTH"

SANTOSH KALWAR

CHANGING THE WAY WE CHANGE THE WORLD

THROUGH BUILDING POSITIVE CONNECTIONS